The Judge & The Jury

Good morning ♡

Sometimes we are our worst critics. We judge ourselves & our actions so harshly that we miss the lesson we are meant to learn from the experience. In my day to day readings, I recently came across the concept if the Negative Ego. The Negative Ego replays the negative self judgements we have of ourselves, some the we are aware of & others we have hidden deep within that we may have even forgot they exist. This can cause us to block out the importnat messages of Peace with who are & the decisions we make, of knowing that what we do or not do,say or not say, is a way to help us learn more about who we truly are & to embrace that. How many of us can relate to this: comparing ourselves to others &trying to live up to someone else’s standards of how they live or how they think we should live? How many if us can relate to setting unrealistic goals for yourself & then beating yourself up when you don’t totally follow through? I know I can totally relate to both, & reading up on the Negative Ego is helping me to understand that those negative self talks & harsh judgements are doing nothing but hold me back from learning about the REAL me. Reflecting on our words & actions are important for development of self. We look back on things in attempts to understand why. Guilt & shame tend to try & poke their heads in. Sometimes we let them in, wollowing with them, thinking less & less of oursleves. But when we remember that we are human, bound to make mistakes, it’s the first step in self Forgiveness, leading us to move on in a clearer direction & path. There’s no need for negative self talk like “I’m so stupid,” “Why did I do that? ” “They are going to think I’m…..” & so on & so on. We can choose to think & feel more positive, telling ourslevs that we are “worthy”, that we are “beautiful “, that we will go through rough patches but they will turn around for the better & we will be okay. It is the ebb & flow of Life. Love yourself & be yourself. Peace & Love ♡ ☆

“I do not fix my problems. I fix my thinking.  Then problems fix themselves.”- Louise Hay

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☆The Inauguration ☆

Good afternoon ♡

Poetry is my favourite go-to when I want to inspire more creativity in myself. It helps me to express what I’m feeling or thinking about in a way that gets my mental wheels turning. And it feels good! I hope you enjoy this poem I wrote, The Inauguration, & that it inspires you in some way to reach towards your highest self too 🙂 Peace & Love ♡ ☆

The Inauguration
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It may not always sit straight, primped, & proper
But my Crown will always be mine
Will always stay perched as it should
For Royalty becomes me
For now I remember the Queen inside
The Queen I’ve always been
For now I hear her voice at all times
Even when outside forces try to make me forget it
Even when tears may fall & my lioness-like roaring confidence
Is the sound of a cat’s meow
I will always remember.

Even in the rumble of the thunderous other voices
Trying to tell me that my beauty is not beautiful
That my strength lies not within,
Not in my natural curves
Nor in my glowing smile
Or radiant Soul
Not in my intelligence
Or undying thirst for knowledge
Not in my perfect imperfections
In the stretch marks that symbolize the journey of Life that has come through me
Or the deep golden brown hues of the windows to my Soul
That I need not don my own Crown of individuality
And should conform to the standards of the hour
As they change every day

But I will always remember,
My Crown of ancestoral strength & perseverance
That continously flows through me
That pushes me to be my best self
Akways
That was placed upon my tresses as a symbol of regality
I will never take it off
I will not let it fall
Because even when I don’t see it
I can always feel it
Steady and perfectly set right where it should be
Reminding me of my Royalty,
As it has always been.
-LadyDee

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Here & Now

Good morning ♡

Today’s morning daily is to encourage you to move forward positively. Each day we wake is a time to do better than the day before. Human as we are, we often tend to live in yesteryear or in tomorrow, waiting for something to happen that we think will make us reach our goal. How often have we said to ourselves, “When I get this job then I’ll feel complete,” or “if I get this car or this amount of money saved then I will be okay.” But what about right now? What about this moment? We weren’t created to dwell in the past or to live in wait for something better. Everything we need is right here, right now. We may need to do some work to recongize that, whether it be through prayer, writing, venting, soul searching, etc, but each day we are given an opportunity to make it work. The breath of life reminds of that. Take a deep one. Right now. Feel Life. We are always growing, always learning, always on the path of progression, we just have to pay attention to what is right on front of us. On that note, make the best of the moment right now. Forgive yourself for past mistakes & unfavorable choices, as we are human & this will happen, & move forward in Love for Self. When we do that, we give honor & gratitude to our Creator & can begin to see a way where we once thought there was none. Have a blessed day my loves ♡ Love yourself & be yourself. Peace & Love ♡ ☆

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